Yityish Aynaw: The first black Miss Israel
Last February, the
stunning 21-year-old grabbed international attention after becoming the
first woman of African descent to be crowned Miss Israel at the
country's beauty pageant.
"To be first, you have
all the attention focused on you and I have to represent my whole ethnic
group because through me they see the models," says Aynaw, who will
represent Israel at the next Miss Universe contest. "Through me they see
and discover our whole ethnic group."
Aynaw was born in
Chahawit, a small village in northern Ethiopia, near the city of Gondar.
Her father died when she was young and when she was just 12 years old
she lost her mother to a painful illness. Heartbroken, she arrived in
Israel with her brother to live with their Ethiopian Jewish
grandparents.
"The journey was, I
think, what saved me," she says. "Because I was deeply hurt and I wanted
to escape from Ethiopia and forget everything that had happened and get
on with it," she adds. "I wanted to break away from everything and go
on."
While still a child,
Aynaw was suddenly faced with a new language, a new culture and all the
rest of challenges that come with starting a new life in a foreign
country.
Like the estimated
125,000 Ethiopian Jews who have gone in waves over the years to Israel,
Aynaw experienced the same struggle to assimilate into her new
environment. But Aynaw threw herself at it, not shying away from all
that her adopted country expected of her, including mastering Hebrew and
serving in the Israeli army after school.
"It is three of the most
significant years in my life," says Aynaw about her time in the
military. "There I learned a lot about myself; there I developed," she
adds. "I was a girl of 19 and the army gave me structure."
After finishing her army
service, Aynaw started working as a sales clerk in a clothing store.
Tall and beautiful, she long had her eye on becoming a model but she
never thought about taking part in a pageant. Instead, it was a friend
of hers who entered her name into the Miss Israel competition.
"We were always laughing
about it," says Aynaw, who also goes by the nickname Titi. "I'd not
registered during the time of my studies because I was really busy --
the army is the army, I couldn't. So when I ended she said to me 'you
have got no more excuses and I am going to register you.'"
Her win in February
changed her life instantly. Within a matter of weeks, her name and image
were splashed across newspapers and websites, both in Israel and
abroad.
The publicity also
caught the attention of one of her heroes: Aynaw was invited to an
exclusive state dinner for Barack Obama in honor of his first visit to
Israel as U.S. president.
"This was an incredible
moment," she says. "He was a figure that I want to emulate. I did a
project on him in school and I knew what he had been through and what he
had done. He was like a mentor for me, so to meet him and say hello, it
was like closing a circle."
Aynaw says she had never expected something like this would happen to her.
"Suddenly I thought
about the little girl who had suffered and the little girl whose only
dream was to run and play the whole day. The pain I went through; I saw
it all," she says.
As the first ever black
Miss Israel, Aynaw is seen by some as a beacon of hope that racial
prejudice is beginning to fade away in the country. Aynaw says that
she's never been the victim of racism but adds that there have been
instances where friends of hers have been treated differently because of
the color of their skin.
"I am aware of the
feeling, even if it did not happen to me," she says. "I know it [racism]
exists in the country and the whole world," adds Aynaw. "It is
something that has to be dispelled."
A pained little girl who
has turned into a strong young woman, Aynaw is now hoping to carve out a
successful career in fashion and also serve as a role model for her
community.
And although her future
seems set to be filled with glamorous days, Aynaw says ultimately her
formula for a happy life rests on one thing.
"I have always dreamed
of having a big family, a big house and a lot of kids," she says. "I
want to give my kids the experience I never had. That is my great
dream."
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